Boss Bitch: Value and Purpose (ladies only)

 

BOSS BITCH

 What makes a woman underachieve is her inability to try or her fear of men or her fear of competition or her fear of failure or her fear of critics or just pure laziness and feeling too relaxed in the comfort zone.

   If you want money, success, then girl you have to go out there and get it. A lot of ladies today are too relaxed mentally, they want the men to do all the thinking and hard work while they seat at home and get bigger and lazier waiting for prince charming to come take them to Disney land, I hope you are ready to wait forever.

   It all starts with the mind, how much can you think? Make research and think, create ideas and plans, go out of your comfort zone to achieve them. Don’t tell me you don’t have money, start by doing the little that demands little or no money, stop complaining, if you are not ready to go out of your way to achieve success then you can never manage success when it comes because success will continue to take you out of your way; you are about to get involved in the adventure of a life time.

   Before creative and productive ideas will be accepted by people, you must first gain their trust, nothing works better, the moment people trust you they can wait long on a queue just to have your product or idea in their hands. They say people like free things, well take advantage of that free mindset, create free ideas and contents, enough to keep them wanting more and after a long while of free stuff you suddenly come up with the price tag of something branded by you, once your free stuff has added value to them, they’d run to your priced product or idea because they are certain to get greater value.

   A woman is not left out in the good stuff except you choose to be left out, if you say you can then you are right and if you say you can’t you are still right. The journey of a thousand miles begins with one step; a woman who becomes diligent in her work will dine with kings.

In life there are two things: Good and bad,  both being balance to reality....  Then there is Problems and solutions, both being achievements to a man or woman.  The world can know you for two things, the problem you created or the problem you solved, although there is a third option which is, become a part of the world’s overpopulation.

   The problem with ladies is just the unwillingness to even try; I was at an event somewhere in Africa last year and I noticed the way people paid attention to the female drummer much more than the male singer, people appeared to be pleased and were smiling. Who says women are limited, a daring woman catches attention quickly, a daring woman gets the spotlight faster than a daring man.

   Now I ask you, what is stopping you? Nothing... just YOU!

Value and Purpose

  Women today will do anything to have money including lick a man’s butt hole with her tongue as long as her bills are paid 

  Everybody is chasing money but there is more to life than money, if you don’t believe then ask Bill Gates and Mark Zuckerberg. 

  Permit me to tell how to be steps ahead of many men, in life there is Money and there is Value and Purpose. Which do you think comes first? 

 Purpose comes first because with purpose in display your map can be plotted, a map to greatness must be plotted on purpose because without purpose there is no direction. The question every woman should ask herself is, have I identified my purpose? Identifying purpose is not as difficult as you think, purpose can be identified from passion, the basic things you love doing, the basic skills you learnt or are born with, through passion your purpose will be defined and that is one step to success. 

  With purpose identified and a map built, you will have to leave your comfort zone just to show the world what you can offer them. Try answering this question, what is it that the world wants but don’t know they want it? We never knew we wanted Microsoft until it came, we never knew we wanted facebook until it came, we never knew we wanted WhatsApp until it came, there is a lot more that the world has not seen or had but you can create it. 

The creative is not limited to men, we have the same brain as they do. We can be achievers in any area of life, we just have to put effort to it. 

  With your purpose identified you show the world then you become valuable, value differs, you can become so valuable that the world will beg you to take their money and give them what you offer, a part of your value. 

  Money chases value because with value money remains worthless so money always shows respect for value which is why it is advisable to search for purpose and value and money will automatically come running at you in a rush. 

  Look at young Kylie Jenner, young and wealthy based on how valuable she is, her idea of establishing her brand of fashion was made a reality because she went looking for purpose and found it. 

   You don’t have to lift a car to be a wonder woman, you have to lift a problem and all you need to do that is your mind, a thinking mind, a determined and smart mind and will power.

   For a woman, mind power should be the order of the day because women are born with a mental strength that men do not have. You have an advantage over men, men have to fight for everything but not you, you can use your expression and mind to win without lifting a finger just like I explained in the sisterhood lasso below

   Somebody said being a man is difficult because you have got to fight for everything but not women, he is right

   Another good thing about being a woman is that you are seen as a weaker vessel but they do not actually know that you are stronger, so whenever a woman comes out daring, men are awed and are forced to turn attention to her and give her what she wants.